The Things That Don't Want YOU

Why do you continue to want the things that don't want you? What is wrong with you? I can't really sugar coat this one. You've gotta STOP doing this. There is no way that I can ration to you that this is any sort of OK, in any stage of your life, in any regard of your life. I don't care what rebuttal you have. Just...NO. NO NO NO. 

This is such a simple thing to say to yourself in your mind, "stop wanting and putting effort into the things that don't want you." But how many of us truly, sincerely, steadfastly adhere to this notion in every waking second of our lives? Sure as shit, I HAVE NOT, and boy has it cost me valuable time in my life. We are ALL guilty of this at one time or another. But I want to call it to your attention today. I want to remind you of something you probably already know. I want to reiterate it to you. We all need to hear this from time to time. It's far too easy to get caught up in the quicksand of life of all the things that DO NOT WANT YOU. In you go. Down you sink. You're never getting those days back in your life.

Yep, let's spell it out: that guy or girl that won't give you the time of day, that job that just won't call you for an interview, that shitty friend that ducks and dodges your invites to hang, that horrible family member that makes no effort to be a part of your life. Yup, all of those...and many...many...many...more. Lot's of stuff in this world is just NOT GOING TO WANT YOU...EVER. Let me repeat that....THEY DO NOT WANT YOU! And you know something else, you'll never be able to change that. And even if you could...why the fuck would you want that? Why would you want to spend your time on someone or something that was never "in" to you from the get go? This is, plain out, a horrible waste of your time on the Earth.

You need to wake up and really tune into a couple things that I am about to tell you here:

Number one, the world is full of so much God damned abundance that you never need to SETTLE on ANYTHING that doesn't want you. Because you know what, there are millions if not billions of other "ones" out there that will want you.

And number two, you'll NEVER attain a quality relationship with whatever those things are that don't want you. Ever. You're lying to yourself if you think otherwise. Here's the truth. THEY SETTLED on you. How shitty is that? How does that make you feel? Ever tried to put two like poled magnet ends together? Sure you can force em to touch, but there's no natural attraction. Substantial effort is required to hold these together. Why do you even want that?

In any effect, STOP DOING this. Stop wanting the things so badly that don't want you. Just stop. Now. Yesterday. Stop it. Move the fuck on with your life. Take it elsewhere. Gravitate toward those things that do want you around. The things that want you around just as much as you want them. Gee...what a concept, right?

It's the only way. Stop being lazy. Cut the shit. Enough of the "whoa is me". Get your fuckin' ass out there in the world and find the things that DO WANT YOU. They are there. In mass. Like...ridiculous...ginormous mass. 

I hope you think about this article in the future. Next time you are staring that thing in the face that doesn't want you...I want you to think of what Mike would say. 

Mike would say...MOVE ON.

THE WORLD IS ABSURDLY ABUNDANT. 

You just refuse to acknowledge it for some reason...