Gee, wouldn't that be nice? Never getting rejected by a woman ever again? Well, that's a pretty tall claim, but what I will guarantee you is this, you'll rarely get rejected if you listen and apply what I'm saying here.
I wrote an article previously talking about "cold approaching" women. This is in specific reference to that. HERE I've got no show stoppers for you here. No magical potion. No mind tricks for you to play. No, life does not work that way, and certainly the love game does not. Here's the deal guys of how to make this so:
Never make offers when the circumstances aren't right.
Go back and read the previous article where I talked about learning to feel a woman's energy out as you make your approach. The concept is simple here. The wrong circumstances are those instances where you are getting a bad read, a negative vibe, a wall. DON'T give her anything to reject in the first place if this is your case. Walk away with your dignity and find another one. There's 4 billion out there. Here we have a case of NOT getting rejected. If on the other hand, you make the approach, things are going really well, she's smiling, asking you questions, remaining in place with good body language, then my friend, I am putting my money on you that you will not get rejected if you try to exchange contacts. Odds are good. Here we have a case of you NOT getting rejected.
This concept is simple, but easily overlooked by most of us males. Believe me, this low rate of rejection will do worlds for your confidence. That in and of itself is huge...
Now I don't want to rant too much, but I know there are those of you out there that will claim that you don't care about making a read or care what her energy state is at the time of approach and you are just gonna throw an offer out regardless and "see what happens". Well, that's fine, do as you want. But there is so much wrong with your mindset here. You are a HIGH VALUE individual. Why would you want to offer your presence to any one person on this Earth that is communicating that they don't want you there? Are you just some cheap trinket that you're trying to get anybody and everybody to buy no matter what? Are you that invaluable that you are willing to sell your self and your dignity for the shard of a chance that you might actually see this person again? The answer here is...HELL NO. You are a human being with an incalculable value, not a piece of rubbish to be rejected so readily. Take your nuts off the table and keep on moving. This woman didn't want 'em. There's 3.9999 billion other's out there that probably would.
Now then, if you still feel like you are struggling in getting the good reactions out of women in these situations, DO NOT hang your head. The good news is that this is more than possible to rectify. This simply comes through hardcore, intensive self improvement. We can, should, and will talk about these things on another day.
Hang in there guys. Keep making your cold approaches. You really are the rare ones in this day and age. That puts you at a huge advantage. Women sincerely do appreciate this...believe me.
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